Message from W. Larry Pharr

It is with great sorrow and grief that I heard of Ben's passing. He was one of the most cheerful, caring and loving men I know. He will be sorely missed and my prayers are for Darlene and Kim as they cope with the days ahead without their loved one.

Message from Jann Warnke

My condolences on the passing of Ben! The Coca-Cola Collectors Club will really miss him! He was always "on duty". guarding stuff and keeping us in line! He was known and cared about from coast to coast and even in the middle of Nebraska! God Bless!

Message from David L Tindell

Ben did a lot for me when I was a kid. I will never forget his kindness. He was always helping others in the North Georgia area. Rest in Peace!

A candle was lit by David L. Tindell on January 6, 2018 9:11 PM

A candle was lit by Lee & Trudy Knight on January 6, 2018 9:10 PM

Message from Rossville Georgia

Never will forget many years ago when Ben (Santa Claus) came to visit me my niece and nephew for Christmas. He had reindeer on the roof and brought presents. It was a memory I will never forget

A candle was lit by Karen Hayes Long on January 6, 2018 8:39 PM

A candle was lit by Sandra Ware on January 6, 2018 9:31 AM

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So long Cuz. Ben was one of a kind. The kindest and most compassionate soul I know. You knew this just by meeting him. His smile greeted everyone.

Message from Sandra Ware

Thank you Cuz.

Message from Donald Brown

The kindness and support that Ben shared, especially for those less fortunate and children, are the measuring stick we should all strive to carry forward. A great man who helped and influenced so many people. "Big Ben" left his imprint on this section of the world and we are all better for it. Thank You both for sharing him with so many of us.

Message from Bill Wade

We shared a lot of time together and I have many fond memories. Your pal Bill Wade

Message from Sandra Ware

Big Ben or Cuz was the most compassionate soul I know. He always found a way to help in the community. If he knew a family in need, he found help for them. Sometimes the help came from him but the family never knew. He was surely an example for all to follow.

A candle was lit by Donald and Teresa Brown on January 6, 2018 9:08 AM

A candle was lit by Dana Peterson and. Rita Carter on January 5, 2018 8:52 PM

Message from Rowena Lockman

Darline and Kim: I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your precious one. My sincere prayer is the the Lord will wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you each and every day ahead.

A candle was lit by Rowena Lockman on January 5, 2018 4:52 PM

Message from Bill Haley

I feel honored to have been among "Big Ben's" many friends. I first met him while working at Chattanooga Glass Company, where I learned we both enjoyed searching for Indian artifacts. At that time he could still get around well and we had some great times slogging around in muddy fields looking for arrowheads. I left the glass company in 1985, but Ben stayed in touch over the years. I'm blessed to have had such a great role model. Ben always had a smile on his face and was always kind and generous. You will be fondly remembered, my friend.

A candle was lit by Sandra Ware on January 5, 2018 11:55 AM

A candle was lit by Paul, Sharon, & Grant Heming on January 5, 2018 11:49 AM

Message from Wanda Brown

Kim and Ms. Darline, I am so sorry to her about Mr. Ben. Even though I haven’t seen you guys in years I’ve always thought of him as a big sweet teddy bear who loved his family so much. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord keep you in His loving arms during the days ahead.

A candle was lit by Taylor(Bit) and EarleneHenry on January 5, 2018 8:48 AM

Message from Yvonne Hughes

Kim and family. So sorry to learn of your Dad’s passing. My sincere sympathy. Yvonne

A candle was lit by Yvonne Hufhes on January 4, 2018 11:31 PM

A candle was lit by Jerry & Judy Haymons on January 4, 2018 10:15 PM

A candle was lit by Eddie and Debby Upshaw on January 4, 2018 10:14 PM

A candle was lit by James and Bonita Bryan on January 4, 2018 9:42 PM

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Love, prayers, and God's comfort during this difficult time.

A candle was lit by James and Bonita Bryan on January 4, 2018 9:37 PM

A candle was lit by Michal and Jeff Rutledge on January 4, 2018 8:54 PM

Message from Michal Mattheiss Rutledge

Dear Kim and Darline,

I am so very sorry for your loss, and pray God's comfort and peace surround you.

I met Big Ben when Kim and I had our first sleepover in second grade. He always had a big smile on his face, and loved teasing us through the years. And he absolutely adored his baby girl! I'm thankful to have known him, and grateful for his example and legacy of compassionate community service.

Message from Carol lister

I worked with the Walker County Stocking Full of Love for 14 years . It was in the early years when we would have to stop in the middle of shopping and let Dick Dengler who was our treasurer see how much money we had left and anytime we were in need Dick would say I have someone that will help us out . He didn't want the glory, so not a lot of people knew who Dick was talking about, but it was Mr . Ben ! And many many times he came through for the children of Walker County . He is now getting his reward . Love and prayers for the family . Thank you Mr. Ben and God Speed

Message from Mike & Wendy Lawrence

Our Coca-Cola family has lost a wonderful man. Big hugs to the family.

Message from Tracie Wilkes

So very sorry to hear about the passing of Ben. He was a very special man. Our thoughts and prayers are with Darline and Kim. Bob, Tracie and Justin Wilkes

A candle was lit by Jerry Stephens on January 4, 2018 7:11 PM

Message from The Andy Stephens family

Ben was a big part of our lives growing up. He served in the Rossville Lions Club with our Dad Andy Stephens. We had contact with Ben in the Rossville community over the years in many diffrent roles. Ben was always a friend to the whole Stephens family. His jokes and pranks were the subject of many convesations around the dinner table. He will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone that must deal with this loss.

Message from Lex&Linda Wiggins

Darline & Kim,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Praise our Lord Jesus, one day there will be no more goodbyes.
God bless you and may HIS love surround you with peace as only HE can do.
Lex & Linda

A candle was lit by Lex & Last nda Wibggins on January 4, 2018 6:55 PM

Message from Susan Dodd Tankersley

There's so much that could be said about Big Ben. He meant so much to the Community, a dear friend to so many and always looking for ways to help others. He always took time to listen, talk with me and we laughed together . Ben always showed support and love for others. I remember my sons buying socks when they were young for Big Ben to take to the Veterans at the VA Clinic . Our community has lost a dear friend. His friendship will always be treasured..